I applaud you for seeking advice from a therapist, its a very brave and sensible thing to do. I have sympathy for you, I have been with my fiancee since i was 15! I wanted to remain a virgin until I was married, and I often doubted that my fiancee would wait for me, i got myself so upset and worried about losing him because of wanting to wait, he proposed when i explained all my doubts to him, to show me that he would wait and that he loved me and wanted to be with me regardless of not having sex. I have had doubts about our relationship, I often wonder what it would be like to date other guys or be with someone else, but I also think that its exciting to meet my soulmate at such a young age, because we're gonna go on lifes journey together.
I guess your main problem is that your bf isnt showing any signs of wanting a future with you, I think you've got to be selfish and only think of yourself. You only live once, and if you're life's not going the way you want it to, then change it, life's too short to wait about for something to happen, you've got to make it happen yourself! Explain how you feel, if he still doesnt consider your feelings, then move on.
I really hope everything works out for you, I send you my best wishes xx
I guess your main problem is that your bf isnt showing any signs of wanting a future with you, I think you've got to be selfish and only think of yourself. You only live once, and if you're life's not going the way you want it to, then change it, life's too short to wait about for something to happen, you've got to make it happen yourself! Explain how you feel, if he still doesnt consider your feelings, then move on.
I really hope everything works out for you, I send you my best wishes xx