honestly etoupe and graphite r just fancy names for grey! back in july 2008, i was facing the EXACT same dillema ur facing now monica, eversince i can remember my dream birkin was the orange and when i was offered the etoup from Hermes in july, everyone told me its so blah and if im gona spend money it might as well b the color i longed for. 2 days ago i got the orange birkin 35cm silver hardware, and i cudnt b happier!
and there is noooo comparison between the lindy and the birkin, its like comparing a sports car to a classic car, just coz they r both cars doesnt mean they r the same... oh well i tried to explain! lol
Going for both was my original choice. As I wanted to be 'sensible' I decided that 2 Birkins should be more than enough. But perhaps choosing for Etoupe AND Orange would make an end to this very difficult decision .I'm afraid I'm not going to be much help Monica because I have place SOs for BOTH orange and etoupe But I can tell you that orange was my first choice, I wanted my first birkin to be Orange!! But some how H fairy works in mysterious ways and my first birkin was a fucshia ostrich w/ phw. I also have an orange kelly but that doesn't stop me from getting an orange birkin!! I'd say go for both!! You can't go wrong with either one!!