I bid on a bag and won it. Before this I had asked the seller if she would ship to my location and for how much, she confirmed she would for 40 dollars. So I bid and won. We had agreed I would pay a couple of days later and I did the exact date stated. Payed the amount including the $ 40 for s&h by PayPal and included a little message to her asking how it would be shipped. I immidiatly got a + feedback saying thanks for fast payment etc. A friend of mine bought a same size/brand bag from the US a few weeks ago, payed $ 35 shipping and got it in a couple of days by UPS express so I thought I'd suggest that but never heard from her. I waited a week - checked her profile and saw that she had been online leaving feedback for others, so I wrote another message asking her if she had recieved my messages and if we could discuss shipping. No answer. Waited 3 more days, wrote another message and now it has been another 3 days and still no answers. She's online leaving feedback for others every day. She has 2183 positive feedback (Positive Feedback: 99.7%) and only 6 neg ones and sells high end items all the time. The 6 negative ones says things like: Got + feedback but never recieved item, never recieved item and no response, very poor communicator, did not reply to any e-mails, never recieved and no refund. ^ which is exactly what I am going through. However with the more than 2000 pos. ones I thought I'd be okay. I'm just so mad! How to I get eBay to send me her contact details? I do not have her email-adress and I'd like to send her an e-mail not just messages through e-bay. I'd also like to tell her that if I don't hear from her or recieve the item I will report fraud, but I'm not sure on what to do or what to tell her - could anyone please help me compose a message or help me out.. what should I do? Thanks in advance.