Sorry this is so long! But need opinions... OK, I bought a $200+ doll on Nov.6 from a seller, with 3000+ feedback, should be fine, right? The auction says priority shipping within 48 hours of payment. I almost always pay instantly for my things and did so. The seller left me positive feedback. I have PO Box so priority items almost always arrive in 2 days, the 10th comes no doll, 12th is a holiday, 13th no doll...ok..when the 14 th arrives with no doll, I am not panicked, but think a quick e-mail is order...no response. the 15 and 16 pass no doll, no response, I send another e-mail. By the 17th with no doll and no response I am getting panicked...I check his feed back again, there are other items that ended the 5th and 6th that now have feedback, so he is shipping...hmmm...let's check his items, well he has listed 7 pages worth of stuff between the 6th and the 17th..he is def. around. When Monday arrives (19th) and no doll, needless to say, I am beside myself. I send him one last e-mail saying if I don't hear from him by the afternoon, I am filing with Paypal...no response. I file with Paypal. Now that paypal is holding his money, he responds...lol...He says sorry, he went away for a few days, then his mother got sick and he has been devoting 100% of his time to her...now I am usually a very understanding person...but if this was true why did the other items ship and even more importantly how did he have the time to list over 7 pages of stuff!! He wants me to close the dispute before he ships..but paypal says once the dispute is closed it can not be reopened..I said no, send my item then I will close...am I being to harse?