Which would you choose?
I asked this question in passing on another thread, and figured I should open up the discussion because I'm genuinely interested in people's thoughts.
I have thrice been in a position where a bag I wanted was available by different sellers at the same price, except one is NWT and fully wrapped and the other is in excellent preloved condition.
All 3 times, I've opted to buy the preloved one for the same price. My choice, according to my best friends, is ludicrous!
But, in my mind...
1- I'd rather extend the life of a bag that doesn't work for someone else. It benefits them and me, and it honours the source of the leather. The fully wrapped version of the bag will certainly be bought by others who would rather a perfect specimen.
2- There is a higher chance that the person selling their preloved item is in need of cash- particularly these days- and I'd rather give someone a leg up that way. The fully wrapped version is likely being sold by someone who professionally flips for profit, or a store employee who is using their discount to maximize their profit. This is fine of course, but if there's even a slight chance my $$$ would be more useful to the former seller (who will likely get less interest when listings show a new piece priced similarly), then that helps my conscience a bit.
3- This one is a new thought that now gives me pause but did not come into effect with my earlier purchases... given lootings of late, perhaps the NWT piece is stolen and I categorically cannot stand for that.
Having said all that, my friends do regularly joke that I'm an absolute pillock for not taking the NWT pieces considering the list price is identical. I need to know: Am I the only one who'd make this choice? Would anyone else do as I do?
Also, I should say that I do try to negotiate the preloved prices down a bit, but the difference is always negligible because I never want to offer or pay less than a fair price for my items. When the condition is great, I do not ask for more than a discounted shipping rate. That's just me, but I see how it contributes to my friends' opinion of me as being wrong in this case.
Very interested to hear outside opinions.
Edit: I should note I'm speaking of contemporary brands, so the money is modest by all accounts.
I asked this question in passing on another thread, and figured I should open up the discussion because I'm genuinely interested in people's thoughts.
I have thrice been in a position where a bag I wanted was available by different sellers at the same price, except one is NWT and fully wrapped and the other is in excellent preloved condition.
All 3 times, I've opted to buy the preloved one for the same price. My choice, according to my best friends, is ludicrous!
But, in my mind...
1- I'd rather extend the life of a bag that doesn't work for someone else. It benefits them and me, and it honours the source of the leather. The fully wrapped version of the bag will certainly be bought by others who would rather a perfect specimen.
2- There is a higher chance that the person selling their preloved item is in need of cash- particularly these days- and I'd rather give someone a leg up that way. The fully wrapped version is likely being sold by someone who professionally flips for profit, or a store employee who is using their discount to maximize their profit. This is fine of course, but if there's even a slight chance my $$$ would be more useful to the former seller (who will likely get less interest when listings show a new piece priced similarly), then that helps my conscience a bit.
3- This one is a new thought that now gives me pause but did not come into effect with my earlier purchases... given lootings of late, perhaps the NWT piece is stolen and I categorically cannot stand for that.
Having said all that, my friends do regularly joke that I'm an absolute pillock for not taking the NWT pieces considering the list price is identical. I need to know: Am I the only one who'd make this choice? Would anyone else do as I do?
Also, I should say that I do try to negotiate the preloved prices down a bit, but the difference is always negligible because I never want to offer or pay less than a fair price for my items. When the condition is great, I do not ask for more than a discounted shipping rate. That's just me, but I see how it contributes to my friends' opinion of me as being wrong in this case.
Very interested to hear outside opinions.

Edit: I should note I'm speaking of contemporary brands, so the money is modest by all accounts.
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