I just bought a mini Christie from the fos this last time. I love the look but it is really stiff. I figured saffiano leather was stiffer than pebble but wasn't expecting that much. I never paid attention to saffiano before something about it not looking squishy always put me off from touching it. Does it soften up any after using or will it always be so stiff you can hardly get anything in the zippered pockets.