I was so excited to finally get a matinee in elephant (good deal at Luna Boston) but when it arrived today I found out that...it is HUGE!! I checked the measurements, compared them to some of my other bags, did plenty of reseach here looking at pics, etc and thought that it would be fine. But to me it seems really enormous! And I don't shy away from big bags, even though I am somewhat petite. Maybe it's the stiffer elephant leather??? To all of you matinee owners (or those who have seen them IRL) - are the other colors (dark gray perhaps...) so much smooshier that they make the bag look smaller? I feel like I am carrying a suitcase with this one! And how do the sizes of the MA and MAM really compare to the matinee? I can't decide if I should exchange it for a different color or just give up on the matinee and get a different RM (or wait until new colors come out). What's a girl to do?