Well, I got my Marais a few days ago and was all excited until yesterday when I carried it for the first time! I thought it seemed small compared to my speedy 25 (maybe due to the pochette being inside the bag aswell) and that it just didnt feel comfortable. WIth my speedys I fell in straight away, but my Marais, not so much! Do you think it takes time to get used to bags Im scared that the Marais looks 'oldish' but love the pochette and the shape. I just feel down because I havent connected with it, kwim? Girls what should I do? 1~Keep it and get used to it? 2~Return it and get a different bag? ~ Suggestions please!!! (I saw a bedford in framboise today but now im not too bothered about getting a shoulder bag if I return it!?) Thanks everyone!