I didn't hear her tone, but was she "blaming" oprah or just said it tongue-in-cheek, as saying if it were her, that's what she would have done (and wished oprah had) since she has this thing for Tom. Oprah does have the power to edit what she wishes, it's her show and harpo's her production company but personally I think it would have been disrespectful toward tom if that's what he wanted his audience to see. He was her guest. If it were seriously controversial or insulting, then I can see oprah stepping in...but acting like a psycho is acceptable like the farrah/david letterman debacle. lol. Not that there's a need for ratings but it does spark interest obviously. Maybe if I were a close friend of Tom's, I would have given him an opportunity to watch himself first then see if he might have a change of heart in airing those few seconds. Maybe she did...who really knows?
Setting that aside, I'm somewhat surprised Rosie stepped in. I've never had a big problem with her and thought her standup was funny but on a show like The View I think her mouth can be a bit risky and turn the audience off. Meredith was enjoyably spunky but not obnoxious.