Hi experts. I have decided to go with a Rolex after much internal debate. What really won me over is the sturdiness of them as I am really careless with my jewellery. I loved many of the Cartiers but the ones that I really loved were way out of my budget (of choice). So question is, the ladies size or mid size. I have been into two shops and each swears that the opposite is popular and the other not!!!! So I cant get a feeling from asking the shops as I dont trust they are being honest. Each swears that they hardly sell the opposite one??? I would love your advice here. ps. I am not little or short...the name refers to my look a like daughter!!!!