Hi everyone! I'm having a bit of an engagement/wedding ring issue. My engagment ring is very thin and delicate, yet quite ornate. It's almost identical to this one, but with more filigree and pavé around the prongs & halfway down the band: http://www.faycullen.com/_pics/800/d1020r6d/5.jpg I can't find a band that looks good with it, nor fits with it, and besides, I feel a band with it would take away from the design and be uncomfortable. So, I've decided I'd wear my engagement ring alone on my left ring finger and wear a wedding band on my right hand. Now to the "issue:" I have two choices regarding the band. a.) a cute white gold wedding band that is also very simple and thin and is somewhat like my e-ring in that it is also white gold and antique style. http://www.marleneharriscol.com/categories/AntiqueStyleWeddingBands/WB745.html OR............. b.) a thicker yellow gold band with six little pave diamonds grouped in the center, cluster style that my mother in law brought me from Greece. My hubby is of Greek ancestry and over there they wear yellow gold and the wedding band is on the right hand. While I like that it's from her and she wnted me to wear it/have it, it's MUCH thicker than my e-ring, way more modern looking, and yellow gold, whereas my ering is white gold. The two styles are NOTHING alike. It's actually very much like this ring, except the middle part with the diamond chips is an oval shape. http://www.marleneharriscol.com/categories/EstateWeddingBands/WB964.html So, the white gold band is what I like, the yellow gold band is what has "meaning". What should I do????????????? I am torn between pleasing myself vs. pleasing her, and what's stylish vs. what's sentimental. SUGGESTIONS/IDEAS/COMMENTS please? Thank you for reading this....and yes, I know i'm INSANE!