Well.....I got my chocolate Carly yesterday, and for some reason IT'S JUST NOT ME! I dont like how it lays on my shoulder, and since I was planning to use this bag all fall and winter, wearing a heavy winter coat here in NY, I just dont think it will fit comfortably on my shoulder. It's the medium size...suggestions...should I return it to my boutique OR sell it on eBay since it's not available in stores yet? What do you all think? The large Carly is way too big for me, as I am only 5'2" as someone else had mentioned....I wish they made Carly w/ a long adjustable shoulder strap like the duffles....I am sooooooo sad! I also ordered a wallet to match, which will have to be returned when it arrives on Tuesday OR sell it on eBay as well...I just dont know which way to go....HELP!!!!!!!!!!