Firstly .... A huge apology MOO, for hijacking your thread last week. I promise you that it wasn't in the least bit intentional. Thank you for allowing this to carry on and for being so gracious !
But... I have a final update for you lovely ladies.
After my emails being 'blocked' as unsolicited mail, I decided to use eBay messaging to make contact. I explained that I wasn't giving up and that I would report her to eBay and her local police station.
Total change of attitude from this moment onwards....
Apparently, her fiancé had advised her to offer a partial refund, further negotiations produced an offer of a full refund once she'd received the returned bags. Hm, no bags and no money??? I refused and repeated my intention to report her. Then came a compromise of 50% refund before returning the bags, 50% upon receipt at her work address.
I felt that this was reasonable, better to lose 50% than 100%, so I took one final gamble and FORTUNATELY FOR ME, the seller repaid my money in full!
I know I'm pretty lucky, in spite of my own stupidity and it's only thanks to your backing that I felt strong enough to see this through.
Again , I've been overwhelmed with your kind wishes and support and cannot begin to thank you enough for your thoughtful input. Hoping I can help each and every one of you in some small way one day , too.
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Sorry again MOO and :back2topic:
Dont know what happened Beaver but am glad you have your money back the police station threat usually does it.