undofat,
How long has it been since your procedure? I'm really sorry you are going through this. I know the feeling. My primary rhinoplasty was really bad, and I was so depressed afterwards. It's a devastating to feel like you've messed up your face. I hope your find a way to correct it. There seems to be quite a few patients on realself.com with the same problem and they are all looking for ways to remove the fat. Some of them have had some success.
I almost went to the same doctor as you. His before/after gallery is impressive and I live in the area, but I read on Yelp that he makes patients sign a waiver to not post negative reviews online, which really turned me off. Also, there appeared to be fake positive reviews on realself.com. Very sketchy.
I wanted to share my experience with fat grafting. I got fat grafting done 25 days ago in Korea. They call it "microlipoinjection" there. They seem to have a different approach in Korea. Instead of overfilling, they add a little bit, and many patients need a second or third treatment. The difference on my face is very subtle. I'm actually worried that it will completely resorb and my face will look as gaunt as it did before. At this point it seems like I will need a second treatment.
Seriously, I think the doctors in Korea are very talented and skilled since plastic surgery is so common there. Fat grafting is commonly done on people in their 20's to enhance their features such as augmenting the forehead. I've seen people with the procedure done in person and it looks natural. Since fat grafting is so common there, I wonder if they also have a lot of experience in removing fat grafting? Undofat, maybe you can inquire at some of the major Korean clinics? If you need more info, let me know.