hi all! for the past few weeks, i've been DRIVEN TO INSANITY trying to find a bag...sounds like an easy task, right? guess again! some background...our roof flew off and we had to redo the roof and paint the whole interior of the house that got mildew in it and replace carpeting..don't ask...yikes! soooo...we have a boatload to pay for right now...dh and i had a lengthy talk about my bag "issue"(addiction, habit, call it what you will!) and came to a mutual understanding/agreement that i would be able to spend 1000 on bags and no more for the rest of the year...(a full year, not fiscal year, lunar year, solar year...believe me, i tried!)...so, i bought the ergo red patent leather hobo and love it...ups has been coming and going with michael kors, balenciaga, prada, andrew marc and kooba, and with the exception of the andrew marc, i'm not in love with any of them...SO...i'm thinking carly...i'm going to be 50 w/in the next few months and am wondering if carly is too young? also, which one would you guys recommend for me? i need to make a decision fast because dh has reminded me that so far i've spent over 100 in shipping alone to have the other bags sent to me!!! any help? thoughts? suggestions?? thanks SO much!!!!!