Long rant: Ok, so I have this brother in-law who always makes me feel uncomfortable whenever my husband and I visit. This guy now has 2 lovely kids, and a wife who works her #$$ off for everything. I first felt uncomfortable a couple of years ago, when his wife was pregnant with their first kid. He mentioned "better enjoy your figure now, because when you start having kids it will be gone forever" -- while his wife was out of earshot. He always brags about diving and hunting (I don't know how he can fit in a wetsuit now without looking like a beached whale) and always asks questions about anything related to money or politics or my weight (I am slim and athletic). He was pretty much homeless and penniless when my sister in law met him (SHE was the one who saved up and bought their first home and had equity) but now that he has a job (which she hooked him up with at her work) he just talks about money and he acts like he was the one responsible for the lifestyle they now have! He gives me the creeps every time I see him, and from what my mother in law says, he's pretty verbally abusive to his wife when no one else is around. I wish my sis in law would dump him, but there are the kids to worry about. I just dread the day they want to visit us since we are near Disneyworld in FL (they live in CA). He looks me up and down each time, and is just so GROSS!! Any comebacks or anything anyone can think of to say when he prods in and starts mentioning money, the cost of our home, children someday (I don't plan on having any...but I don't dare mention that for fear of backlash from my husband's family), cars, watches, expensive things? Help me!! This stresses me out every time I think about them. EEEW!