Okay, so my darling husband bought me these Ralph and Duchess ear cuffs, which just arrived in the mail yesterday and I absolutely LOVE
them- However! I cannot seem to properly fit them around my ears in a way that they don't hurt/are uncomfortable. They are purposely bendable so that you can custom size them, but I've tried fitting them comfortably dozens of times and they still hurt my ears. Does anyone know how I should be wearing them so that they are comfortable or have any advice for me?
Please help!! I love them so much and will be heartbroken if I can't wear them..
The directions read: "Slide the bulkier part of the cuff over the top of the ear, then gently bring down, and pull the lobe through the daintier part of the cuff. Once it's completely on, pinch both ends (top and bottom) so it stays in place. If your ears are small, then gentle bend the wire with your thumb to increase the curve and make the cuff smaller, or if your ears seem a little longer then use your thumb to gently open up the wire increasing the length."

Please help!! I love them so much and will be heartbroken if I can't wear them..
The directions read: "Slide the bulkier part of the cuff over the top of the ear, then gently bring down, and pull the lobe through the daintier part of the cuff. Once it's completely on, pinch both ends (top and bottom) so it stays in place. If your ears are small, then gentle bend the wire with your thumb to increase the curve and make the cuff smaller, or if your ears seem a little longer then use your thumb to gently open up the wire increasing the length."

