Ok...so I REALLY want the Vernis Alma MM in the Amarante. But, I'm very casual..usually in jeans, tees, cardigans, sandals or ballet flats (Jcrew look usually). I dont dress up for work and on days off I'm usually at the mall, target, hanging with my kids..stuff like that..nothing fancy ever. Do you think this bag is too dressy/fancy looking ,for my look that I have going on and my life style? Also..do you have to be extremely careful with it, like bumping it into things and does the vernis get scratched and chipped off easily like on the corners of the bag?? Thanks for your thoughts and opinions. If I get it, I want to be able to use it often, not just sitting in my closet waiting for the right occassion to bring it out.