OK, I keep coming back here trying to type this up but every time I finish I feel like it either makes no sense or that it's silly! But I can't fix this dilemma I have and really need advice! I never wear strapless dresses but I love the look. I feel uncomfortable in them in the bust area, I always feel like I'm going to pop out somehow. I bought one after trying on many and I'm going to wear it to something coming up. I feel like I can't stretch my arms upward or else my bra will peek out a LOT (or more!), like the dress stays put while my body moves. Is that how it's -supposed- to be? Or the majority of strapless dresses, do you have to kind of be careful how you move? Another thing is that because no matter what strapless bra I use, I do not have cleavage in a strapless dress, that it looks like the bust area of the dress is LOW on my chest. Everyone says it looks fine but I just don't know! They all look like that on me. I'm not used to wearing them so I don't really know, I still feel unsure. I don't know what can be said about this bit but figured I'd ask as well. I even wonder if maybe the whole problem is that it needs to be taken in? It fits though... but maybe I need it to be super tight? Can a tailor take in the bust of a tube-ish dress without it being noticeable on the outside at all? How much could that cost anyway? Thanks for any advice!!