I just purchased a gorgeous camel deerskin hobo! I never bought a bag that has leather that is so buttery soft! I love the bag, BUT I am worried about taking care of the leather. Any suggestions on how to deal with this oh-so mushy deerskin leather?? I am worried about stains, color transfer, dirt, oil marks, tears...I have never been so paranoid about a bag before. I need to feel that I can take care of this bag or it's going back!