Question About Friends

chessmont

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I did search around, maybe the answer is somewhere but I didn't find it-

I don't understand the Friends feature - I have beenrequested and have added friends, but I never know when someone has left me a message? Is there a notification?
One time someone sent me a message and because I don't go to the friends page often, I didn't see it for 2 weeks. I felt bad, like I was being rude.

Now, when I go there, I see my friends, but I can't see, for example the message a friend left me that I just mentioned. I see other discissions among my friends, ,but not the one to me.

Am I supposed to be able to see myself on the Friends page? I htought thta maybe I can see who wrote me that way - I am completely confused. Is there a tutorial on tpf on how to use this feature?

(sorry if this is a duplicated question) - point me oto the link if it is...

Thanks

-Oh, I did discover how to find 'mysekf' there and thus see messages. But why is there a "break Friendship" link to the right of my name and avatar, but not across from any of my friend's names and avatar?
 

Swanky

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when people leave me profile messages it shows up at the top of the page exactly like it does when I get a PM. Right now mine says Unread:0
but when I have a message it says Unread:1
 

chessmont

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OK thanks, that answers most of my questions - but, why is there the "Break Friendship" click-on to the right of my name, but not next to any of my friends? What does it mean?
 

Swanky

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click on it, it'll probably prompt you to choose anyone you want to remove.
 

kmh1190

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Not that I'm planning on doing this but I've always wondered. If you "break" a friendship with someone, do they get notification that "so and so has terminated their friendship" with them? That would be kinda mortifying.
 

Lvbabydoll

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^Nope, they're not notified BUT, you can tell when someone isn't your friend anymore; the little box on your friends list that says "friend" isn't checked.
 
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