Ok this is not really a personal question but i want everyones opinion!!! my boyfriend and i have talked numerous amounts of times about getting married. We have looked at rings also and we have VERY different taste!!! this is my question....those of you that are married or engaged did u help pick out the ring or let him know what u like and dont like or did he totally surprise you?? and those of you who arnt what do you think? i have told him what i like but when i point something out hes like thats ok and when he shows me something i am like ewwww!!!! i just feel like we have to wear the ring every day forever we should love it...i dont want that to sound selfish or anything...just wanted some opinions!!!!