Hello girls! My brother mistakenly bought me the LARGE woven hobo in tan/camel instead of the small one i ordered. The problem is I'm only 5' tall, small-medium build and in my opinion it looks too big/wide for me. I was wondering if in time, the bag will become slouchier the more you use it, hence the 20" width won't be too obvious. Also, anyone here with similar stature who uses the large hobo? I'd like to know what you think. Returns/exchanges are out of the question since he bought it in an overseas BV outlet store. So my options would be to keep it or sell it.... What do you think girls? Any feedback/opinions would be very much appreciated Thanks!!!