Hello, I am trying to find a casual, easy, lightweight bag. It must have a top handle (or some sort of short handle) along with a crossbody strap. I have plenty of crossbody strap bags, but I feel like they are hard to "grab and go" when they don't have a short handle as well. I always end up scrunching the long strap up in my hand just to get out of the car, for instance. I would prefer a premier designer and preferably silver or dark hardware (not bright gold). I am looking at pre-owned Balenciaga Towns. Maybe the Saint Laurent college bag? I want it soft and squishy, not structured! Any other ideas?