Okay, I posted earlier about a problem I'm having with a buyer and an LV bag I sold her. She either wanted a $200 partial refund or to return the bag. I finally said fine, return the bag, refund of money less shipping. She is "offended" that I want the bag back before I will process a refund. So, what is the procedure with Paypal? If a dispute is filed, don't I need to receive the bag back before refunding? I don't want to be out of my bag and the money.