Note: I have a thread similar to this on the ebay forum, but I am also posting here because I am hoping that one or two of the MJ members here may have bought a bag like mine from the same seller and can talk to me about my situation.
So, my goal here isn't to out anyone, but I have some concerns..
I bought a bag like this:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/190595238826?ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1497.l2649
... after talking with some of you about its authentication.
Prior to buying the bag, I had two exchanges with the seller. One was to ask for additional photos, which I got promptly. The other was to ask how long the shipping might take, because I am leaving for a week on Nov. 22. The seller answered this question within 24 hours as well, explaining that if I bought it on the 11th, he could ship it as late as early the following week, and I'd have it in 4-6 days.
I bought and paid on November 11, and promptly messaged him saying that I'd be happy to be invoiced again to pay for faster shipping, just because I was a bit nervous about getting it on time.
He didn't answer. I got no shipping notification.
A few days later, I messaged again, once again offering to pay more for the shipping if he hadn't shipped yet. And to also ask if he had shipped. I requested a tracking number if he had shipped so that I could know what carrier was bringing it. That way I could call them and request a hold on my package if the 21st comes around and I haven't received it yet. (His original listing makes no mention of the carrier that I can find.)
No answer.
Then the other day, on the 17th, I messaged again, simply asking for a tracking number.
I've been polite and not forceful at all in my messages, but he has ignored them all. I just feel uneasy about the whole thing, especially because he was so quick to respond to my messages PRIOR to buying his product.
I wonder if any of you ladies have also bought one of these, since he obtained quite a few of them. Did you have a similar experience, or should I be worried about getting it at all?
Also, if you did get one, how lovely is it in person? Is it worth all of this anxiety?
I'll probably have to leave this guy neutral feedback or worse even if I get the bag simply because I'm being treated too poorly for someone who just sent him $650. I understand that people are people, and sometimes things come up, but even if he has been honest and shipped the bag, he could have at least taken a moment to respond to a message or two.
Similar experiences?
So, my goal here isn't to out anyone, but I have some concerns..
I bought a bag like this:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/190595238826?ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1497.l2649
... after talking with some of you about its authentication.
Prior to buying the bag, I had two exchanges with the seller. One was to ask for additional photos, which I got promptly. The other was to ask how long the shipping might take, because I am leaving for a week on Nov. 22. The seller answered this question within 24 hours as well, explaining that if I bought it on the 11th, he could ship it as late as early the following week, and I'd have it in 4-6 days.
I bought and paid on November 11, and promptly messaged him saying that I'd be happy to be invoiced again to pay for faster shipping, just because I was a bit nervous about getting it on time.
He didn't answer. I got no shipping notification.
A few days later, I messaged again, once again offering to pay more for the shipping if he hadn't shipped yet. And to also ask if he had shipped. I requested a tracking number if he had shipped so that I could know what carrier was bringing it. That way I could call them and request a hold on my package if the 21st comes around and I haven't received it yet. (His original listing makes no mention of the carrier that I can find.)
No answer.
Then the other day, on the 17th, I messaged again, simply asking for a tracking number.
I've been polite and not forceful at all in my messages, but he has ignored them all. I just feel uneasy about the whole thing, especially because he was so quick to respond to my messages PRIOR to buying his product.
I wonder if any of you ladies have also bought one of these, since he obtained quite a few of them. Did you have a similar experience, or should I be worried about getting it at all?
Also, if you did get one, how lovely is it in person? Is it worth all of this anxiety?
I'll probably have to leave this guy neutral feedback or worse even if I get the bag simply because I'm being treated too poorly for someone who just sent him $650. I understand that people are people, and sometimes things come up, but even if he has been honest and shipped the bag, he could have at least taken a moment to respond to a message or two.
Similar experiences?