Plus if you find that special one from a trusted reseller, you would actually still have your first experience of the whole Hermes store waiting for you...YES
Buying a pre loved one, if you know in your heart that it's the one would be just as special in my opinion.
My first Hermes bag was purchased in a Hermes store at an Airport. My Gold Garden Party, I was exstatic
even though it was not at an actual brick & mortar Hermes, technically I still have that experience of my first waiting for me.
I/we just got back from a beautiful cruise & visited a number of Hermes with no luck at all.
I've been dreaming of my first B for a number of years, since 2007 or 2008 I think, so at this point if I found that special one and it was a pre loved from a trusted source, I would have no problem accepting, are you kidding me, horses couldn't drag me away, bahwahwhahw.
Do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. If you are lucky enough to be in one place and have an established relationship with a S.A. wait. I'm not, I travel all the time and when I am in one place for awhile, too much competition in those cities population wise to be offered a B and I don't have the time to try to play the Hermes let's build a product buying plan with a B or K at the top of that pyramid, lol. just saying.
Good luck, do what excites your heart and most importantly enjoy traveling the road to getting your first special baby!!!!!!!!!