hi ladies.....i haven't started a new thred in a while, i've been wanting to ask this for a while but i felt that i was too shy about this.....but here i go, i would like to get some different opinion about this! i had a dr's appt. today for my baby #2. i'm almost 16 weeks pregnant and i got to hear the heartbeat and it was pretty exciting! towards end of the visit, i asked this young male Dr. about my "problem" that i'm having........ my daughter just turned 2 little over a week ago and i still nurse her. my plan was to stop doing this when she turned 2.....well, this plan isn't going so well, since she's already 2 and my daughter still treats me like i'm a human pacifier. she never did take bottles or paci....she doesn't have any favorite teddy bear nor blankie....*I* am her favorite when it comes to that department. she started going to daycare about 3mo ago, just 2-3 days a week.....and she's been sick on and off for the almost whole time (she never got sick before started going to daycare!), so she 'needs me' even more when she's not feeling well. but she is OK without nursing the whole time she's at school (from 9am to after 3 or 4pm) - she drinks milk or whatever out of straws or cups, she can eat regular food......but at night time, she's like a newborn baby ---- and i'm fully responsible for this whole thing!!! but i'm exhausted. i asked the dr. who delivered her, she says it's ok to breastfeed during the pregnancy, but it might cause premature birth.....so i should work on this, but not in a hurry. the doctor i saw today (young guy) says i should NEVER breastfeed after 24 weeks or pregnancy cuz it's very dangerous --- so i have 2 months to stop! the pediatrician went...."are you having a serious problem with this?!" so i said....well, not really, but i would like to stop sometime.....soon, maybe....?!! then he goes "oh don't worry, i know this lady who breastfed her kid till he was FIVE!!!" and that was that. ok....so more opinion i get, i get more confused....i've been reading so much stuff about this online and everybody says different.... have any of you guys went through the same?!!! sorry about the long post, but if i can, i'd like to get some opinion about this! and any tips on how to wean?!! my daughter is having a major time with Night Terrors (sometimes it last like 30-40 min in the middle of the night, scares me...) and i don't wanna put her through too much....you know... thank you so much!!