umm... I think the parents and school environment are the major factors in shaping how a child thinks. I'm not exactly blaming them, but I think many of them are too "loose" or even if they do try to teach children about sex, they're doing it in an inefficient way. Eg. A parent stresses that sex is a sin, is bad, evil...etc. is definitely not the the right approach because the main method (abstinence-only) used here is fear. I guess I'm more toward the liberal feminist approach in that schools should teach children abstinence-plus, ie being responsible for one's actions. Sex is alright, but make sure that you're doing it for YOU, not following a trend, have well thought over everything, use protection...etc