Hi ladies, Feel free to be honest! As many of you know, I'm moving to Chicago in a couple months. Another girl whom I know and like coincidently is also moving there. We said that we would live together (makes rent a bit cheaper that way). We're not particularly good friends, but we get along well... we just have very different goals and values. I just found out that one of my best friends is willing to move with me to Chicago! The problem is: I want to live with her but I already said that I would live with that other girl. We haven't found an apartment or anything. 3 bedroom apartments are somewhat tough to come by (as my experience thus far has been, at least) and I am certain that there is no way these two girls could coexist peacefully. Should I do the "honorable thing" and keep my word to the first girl even though she's not my ideal roommate? I would have no idea how to break the news to the girl I was originally supposed to live with. I do feel some obligation even though we're not friends. However, there is still more than enough time for her to find her own place. I had agreed to live with her simply because I didn't know anyone else in the city. If it's shady of me to back out (despite not having an apartment or a lease yet) then I won't and I'll have to find some way to make this work. Thanks for your opinions, ladies, you know I count on you!!