i just had a baby. he's almost 5 months now and i recently started to have some hair loss (tons!) and so is he. is this normal? his little head has some bald patches and friends and relatives suggest to shave his hair. do i wait till after he is one year old? or can i do it sooner? they say hair will grow back thicker after you shave them. i'm not really bothered by my hairloss, i have a head full of hair . i'm just worried about the baby's. any thoughts? TIA.