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It is hard to go wrong with blazers, tee shirts, and skirts. That will pretty much do it for me most of the time. You got fixed up. Those are some cute clothes.Went shopping yesterday and bought
Reiss black gabardine blazer
Reiss black gabardine mini skirt
Reiss white cotton gabardine blazer
Guess ice blue sleeveless blouse
Guess black T-shirts -2
Very classicWent shopping yesterday and bought
Reiss black gabardine blazer
Reiss black gabardine mini skirt
Reiss white cotton gabardine blazer
Guess ice blue sleeveless blouse
Guess black T-shirts -2
That is not the same body that is in the picture of the strapless dress...Wow. I just bought a winter top for 50% off. I didn't know they still had winter clothing this time of year. I figured they were putting summer stuff on sale and going into the fall season soon. I don't think I have ever seen this without ordering. I put one of my gold necklaces with it and I do think it is doable next winter. Looks like Christmas with the green and gold. That is probably why I got it at 50% off I suppose. On another note, I figured out how to erase my head and/or blur it out. I am progressing. LOL!
That is not the same body that is in the picture of the strapless dress...
That is not the same body that is in the picture of the strapless dress...
Same there. I went outside that night, but not there. It was a model (picture) from a local Tennessee store. Again. I had done this several times in the past because I thought that if I had permission, it would be ok. Apparently, not according to the moderators. It is my fault entirely for not knowing the rules. I am glad they were clarified. Please understand that the moderators have corrected this with me. I can assure you 100 percent that this will not happen again. it was a "total break down in communication." I actually thought they had deleted those two pictures. At least that is what I was told. I would delete it myself if I could figure out how. I received a message from them, and this has not been done sense, nor will it be done in the future. The only thing that I will post online is things that I order online such as the coverup. I assure you that I would like to follow all the rules simply because I enjoy this site so much. I don't know what else to say, except I am really trying to do everything I can from here on out to follow all the rules. I do listen to the moderators and try to adjust accordingly if I break one. If you look at all of my posts and comments sense those two posts, you will realize that they are following the rules. Sense then, I have had one post deleted because they said I was "off topic," and admittingly it was gray area open to interpretation. I had another post moved because it was posted in the wrong forum. This happened quickly because even I posted that I wasn't really sure which forum to post the topic in. I could see that. Other than that , all my posts have been ok. Again, I get confused sometimes, but I am trying to follow the rules. Once I am corrected, I change it. This an easy fix. The people on this site have been really really nice. I have been accused of being a bot, and admittingly I am not the most computer literate person. I wasn't sure what that was, so I had to look it up. "Robot that gets into sites." I have seen these, but didn't know what they were called.Nothing fancy. A very casual evening with dining outside. Just a jean night, basic top, and a neutral bag all on the name of comfort. Also I apologize about the picture quality. It was taken from a friend's phone and sent to my computer since my phone was dead. I forgot to charge it after using it and it ran down. Frustrating! I think she needs to clean her lens perhaps. That is what the message said on her phone. It was a very casual laid back night though.
Diamondfriend, i don’t enforce the rules, that is the mod’s job. I can only tell you how I feel and what I see. And, I say this gently, but I think the concern is not that you are posting pictures from the internet without permission but rather that you are presenting them as photos of yourself.Same there. I went outside that night, but not there. It was a model (picture) from a local Tennessee store. Again. I had done this several times in the past because I thought that if I had permission, it would be ok. Apparently, not according to the moderators. It is my fault entirely for not knowing the rules. I am glad they were clarified. Please understand that the moderators have corrected this with me. I can assure you 100 percent that this will not happen again. it was a "total break down in communication." I actually thought they had deleted those two pictures. At least that is what I was told. I would delete it myself if I could figure out how. I received a message from them, and this has not been done sense, nor will it be done in the future. The only thing that I will post online is things that I order online such as the coverup. I assure you that I would like to follow all the rules simply because I enjoy this site so much. I don't know what else to say, except I am really trying to do everything I can from here on out to follow all the rules. I do listen to the moderators and try to adjust accordingly if I break one. If you look at all of my posts and comments sense those two posts, you will realize that they are following the rules. Sense then, I have had one post deleted because they said I was "off topic," and admittingly it was gray area open to interpretation. I had another post moved because it was posted in the wrong forum. This happened quickly because even I posted that I wasn't really sure which forum to post the topic in. I could see that. Other than that , all my posts have been ok. Again, I get confused sometimes, but I am trying to follow the rules. Once I am corrected, I change it. This an easy fix. The people on this site have been really really nice. I have been accused of being a bot, and admittingly I am not the most computer literate person. I wasn't sure what that was, so I had to look it up. "Robot that gets into sites." I have seen these, but didn't know what they were called.
I understand. As I said, I will not do this again. These for posted before the moderators contacted me. I have not done this since I was contacted or since. Sorry! I really do not know what else to do. I got a warning and it has stopped since. I am fairly new to sites such as this, so my learning curve is going way up.. I told you and the moderators both that this would stop at 100 percent. It took me forever just to figure out exactly how to even post. Hey, I messed up, and I understand your concern. So, at this point you can take me at my word or not. I cannot go back but I can go forward. By the way, just so you know again. Everything that I have posted since that day has defininely been me Again, these to posts came out before my conversation with the moderators, so it will not be a problem in the future at all.That much I know. You can either believe this or not. Please one more time I undrstand your concern.. Am I allowed to make a mistake out of ignorance? I have always been told that when you make a mistake that you shouldn't make the same mistake twice. That is why when contacted by the moderators, I refused to do this again. Plus in the process, I have learned how to blur things, delete things and many other things. I still have not figured out how to put a happy face over faces. If you and the other members would like for me to leave the site, I certainly will. All that I can do is do what I am told. If you are feeling that uncomfortable still then I will leave. I was actually told by a friend that she just joined this site and was immediately banned for posting something on youtube with no recourse and no way to explain her perspective. Again this came up regretfully today becuse of two postings that I thought the moderators jad deleted after contacting me. I couldn't delete them, and still haven't figured out how to delete posts. From tje bottom of my heart, I am sorry this happened. The last thing I want to do os to make anybody uncomfortable in any way and I am sorry. I will tell you what. I will take a break from the site so that everybody will feel more comfortable. I will come back some time in the future.Diamondfriend, i don’t enforce the rules, that is the mod’s job. I can only tell you how I feel and what I see. And, I say this gently, but I think the concern is not that you are posting pictures from the internet without permission but rather that you are presenting them as photos of yourself.
Here, you clearly went to a lot of trouble to talk about how your friend took this picture of you and the lens must have been smudged etc. and now you are telling us that all was not true and it was a photo of someone else off the internet. And that is worrisome.
Even on the internet, people want to believe that they are making real connections and not chatting with bots or someone with an ulterior motive. And, while that might not be your intent, all of these misrepresentations, while they might feel perfectly fun and innocent, can make others feel like it is.
My humble advice is to just be yourself and present yourself. People who matter will respond positively to the authentic you.