I hear ya. I just graduated with my BA (I've been working on it for years while I worked in the corporate world) and I'm the first from both sides of my family to do so. My parents are proud of me and so many co-workers, family and friends gave me SO much encouragement when I first started out. The ironic part is that now that I finished, where is all of the love? I only got a handful of cards (like count them on fingers). I don't care much about gifts or that kind of stuff, but just the lack of acknowledgement made me feel less than happy. Also, some of my coworkers have been a bit less than friendly to me now (one I am close to, who did not go to college, was treating me rudely and made it clear she didn't believe in me on something despite my achievement and despite that she was one of main people cheering me on in the beginning). Maybe some of your family members are jealous that they never got to experience college or that they just went with what was expected, not going beyond that.
While it hurts, I have matured enough over the years to realize that I don't NEED anyone else's approval or support to know what I did was special and know how much work I put into it. I changed so much as a person, and honestly, no matter what you major in, going to college opens your mind up to an entire new way of thinking. Be proud of yourself and do not let anyone take away from the joy you should get from this.
It won't be easy, they very likely will be times you will hate some of the feelings you go through, but know that at the end of the chase is the ultimiate feeling of personal accomplishment that no one can EVER take away from you no matter how hard they may try. Good luck and keep your head up!
While it hurts, I have matured enough over the years to realize that I don't NEED anyone else's approval or support to know what I did was special and know how much work I put into it. I changed so much as a person, and honestly, no matter what you major in, going to college opens your mind up to an entire new way of thinking. Be proud of yourself and do not let anyone take away from the joy you should get from this.
It won't be easy, they very likely will be times you will hate some of the feelings you go through, but know that at the end of the chase is the ultimiate feeling of personal accomplishment that no one can EVER take away from you no matter how hard they may try. Good luck and keep your head up!