I want a spacious and everyday tote big enough for a few diapers, and other misc baby items that's still chic looking! Here are my choices: Checking into SO damier BH, reg mono BH, or a damier Parioli. One bad thing about the SO would be that I would have to wait awhile for the bag to be made and I would need the bag in about 3 months or so. Pros and cons to the BH and the Parioli?? TIA!