Probably asking the wrong people to do this BUT I'm lusting after a Mulberry bayswater. I love the look of it when i hold it but I don't NEED it. It won't fit on my shoulder over a winter coat ( I live in Uk so often have to wear a coat!) and I can't DO handheld bags with 3 small kids. Please talk me out of buying this bag!!!! I already have a Mulberry annie and Antony (which I love) Please point out all the draw backs for me! I haven't got endless funds to buy bags that are going to look pretty in my cupboard but not get used!