I really need opinions on this. I'm upset because an auction of mine ended a few days ago and I haven't heard any response from the high bidder-(I requested payment or how they are going to pay in 3 days)and I see this person is the high bidder in an auction for the same item that ends tonight. Of course, the bidding isn't up to what mine ended for. Should I e-mail this bidder again? Should I go ahead and send a 2nd chance offer to the 2nd highest bidder? I've been on e-bay for years but just started selling not to long ago, so I'm unsure how to handle this. Thanks for any advice!