...well- for a long while anyway This decision is so important because it's my last bag before I go on a ban and want it to be right! So my search for the perfect gray bag has been narrowed down to two: Anna Corinna City Tote in Steel Botkier Bryant in Gray *the price difference isn't too big of a deal b/c I have 30% discount codes for both* My real concern is whether or not the AC is too trendy...? I am a mom (still fairly cool- ha) but don't want to be trying too hard...is it too "young"? Will this bag look dated in a few years? Also concerned that it's too big, but know the mini is just too small for me... I love the elephant gray of the Botkier and it seems more "classic", but is pretty pricey, even with the discount. If the Bianca came in this gray (not the lighter snakeskin) that would be my choice... Argh- I love them both but can only have one...what to do??? Opinions? Other options? TIA!!!