Hi! I'm glad it helped you understand what you are looking for.
I know exactly what you mean by boring. On days when I want to wear earrings that are classic & simple, it's a boring pearl stud for me! For you, it's a boring diamond stud!
Okay, now that you have shared your other thoughts on why you were considering the VA pave earring, I vote to get diamond studs. Why?
Because for you (assuming I got this correct)...
- You only considered the VA pave earrings to wear with your guilloche.
- You don't like to have too many statement pieces on you at a time, especially not near the face (e.g. no piling all three Frivole pendant, earring, and ring).
- You prefer to have one or two pieces as the star, but for the rest of your pieces, you prefer them to be more a supporting actor (e.g. studs).
- You also have HardWear and don't wear earrings (noooo!!!... you need some earrings to go with that fabulous HardWear piece!)

With those assumptions, I definitely think the diamond studs will work best for you. Because..
You can wear the diamond studs with your HardWear necklace which is a more structural look, and it will go great with diamond studs. You can wear the diamond studs your Frivole pendant and ring, and the diamond studs will highlight the center diamond in the Frivole. Yet, it won't be too busy and matchy matchy around your face (or look like you are wearing a three piece parure), which is what I think you don't like.
On the VCA pave earrings...
Yes, they did not pop for me either. I really tried to love them, but there is just so much hammered metal and not enough diamonds, at least for me.
I think for you, if you do not care about the "VCA logo" earring look, I would skip. Given how you like to wear your pieces, I think diamond studs work better. Diamond studs with your guilloche is a more architectural and singular look, but given you told me you also have HardWear, this is your style, this look is you!
I also think now the VCA pave earrings may look a bit too "old & frou frou" for you due to all the hammered metal, which is a technique used in ancient times.
I say this because all the pieces you mentioned in your post are polished metal (e.g. Frivole, guilloche, Hardware) and a more contemporary look. Hence, I don't think the VA pave earrings will go great with HardWear or Frivole. Of course you could wear them together as people throw stuff on all the time, and it works for them. However, the look will be a busy look, which I think is not the look you are after.
I think your look is bold, but a more fluid & clean shiny bold. If this is you, then the simplicity and singular statement of a diamond stud will work great your necklaces. Just a guess here on your jewelry look.
A bit about diamond studs if I may since this is your first pair...
Aside from the diamond itself, diamond stud earrings are not all created the same. For me, the setting makes a huge difference.
Setting and prongs...
- The classic setting is a four-prong basket. However, I think four-prongs on a diamond make the diamond look like a square. I am also not a fan of the flat basket base as it causes the diamond stud to sit above your skin, and depending on how your ears are, the diamond stud may droop. Pay attention to these two aspects as you decide.
- The three-prong martini setting is also very popular because the original idea is there is minimal metal (only three-prongs). However, a three-prong setting makes the diamond look like a triangle, so be sure to look carefully at that in case you are considering a three-prong martini setting. I do love the martini post as the diamond lays in the ear much better. Try on a martini post to see how you like it on your ear.
- For me, I love a six-prong martini setting. My earrings are six-prong martini set in platinum. The six-prong makes the diamond look perfectly round, and no, there is not too much metal at all. Think of the Tiffany setting, see how beautiful and perfectly round the diamond looks, and see if you like a six-prong.
Post...
- The classic post is the pushback/butterfly.
- There is also the pousette. For me, I'm not coordinated enough to use the pousette post. I cannot for the life of me put the earrings in on the first attempt. It's super annoying as I like to get dressed quickly. Major pain for me, so just FYI. Tiffany uses pousette backs for their earrings, so you can try them on at Tiffany (they will also change to pushbacks upon request). Many people do love them though.
-Another option is the screwback, which is what I have. Srewbacks are very simple to put on as well as being very secure.
Yikes! Sorry for the long post, I went overboard and will now zip-it. I hope it was helpful.
Jewelry is purely for pleasure, and half the joy of of buying the next jewelry piece is dreaming and thinking about exactly what you want and how you will wear it. Good luck and have fun!