It is getting hot and each summer I think about the chopping off my hair. My hair dresser (bless his heart) won't do it, he cuts to my shoulders and then tells me how much I will regret it if he cuts shorter :blink: . Why do women in U.S. society attach sexiness, sultriness, hottness, to long hair? Can't short hair be sexy and not just "cute". Is short hair too "old"? What do you all think and if you have a picture of a sexy gal with short hair please post her picture. I want to chop mine off I always wear it pulled back in a ballerina bun anyway - it serves no purpose except to make my head hot, and fall in my husband's face (if you know what I mean ). I don't think I have ever seen a PlayBoy model with short, pixie, hair - or a swimsuit model with the pixie-do either - what does this say - only long hair is attractive?? Isn't that a little cave-man-ish - a symbol of times when men dragged women by their hair? Please help...I am conflicted between my positive self-image and society's perception of beauty.