I have been wanting to wear my my hair down with my longer bangs pinned on top as a "Pouf" (am I explaining this right?)...but everytime I try it...I think I just look like an idiot. So I'm looking for help on how to achieve the perfect pouf...do you tease hair, pin with bobby pins? Please someone give step by step instructions. I know I must sound like a dork, but I just can't get it to look right! TIA!!