Holy...Just stunning...I would say keep it..It looks absolutely fabulous on you..But then again I have never seen a bag look bad on you....You are a portrait of style...So this being the case I would decide if you really like the 'structure' of the bag that you were referring to...However from reading all your posts I think you'd get a lot of use out of this bag...With your kids and busy lifestyle I would think it would be a great bag to 'grab-go-and stuff!!' ....**sigh** I do hope you keep it!! Emmy