I've had the ABCDior on my wishlist for a few years now, but I saw one in person recently and it looked a lot smaller than I thought it was based on pictures. I'd like something more of an everyday size, so I am now considering the medium. However, I am 5'3 and saw some reviews saying that it's too bulky on a petite frame. Not sure if that was meant when wearing it crossbody, but I would use it primarily with the top handles. Does anyone on the petite side have any pictures with the medium size handheld? I don't live near a store to try one on, so it'd be super helpful.