I don't have access to any stores that carry Phillip Lim 3.1 bags, so I'll have to trust your judgement, tpf! Has anyone carried or seen the Phillip Lim 3.1 Lark bags (either the clutch or the duffel)? Is the leather soft and smooshy, or is it stiffer and more structured? I'm curious, because there were some owners of the Pashli that said it was stiffer than they expected and therefore harder to get in and out of. Do you think the leather will soften much with use?