Persuade me about my vintage heirloom fur jacket…

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Farkvam

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Hello all,

I’m looking for some advice on whether I should keep my vintage Lynx fur jacket.

I had never considered wearing a fur coat but I inherited one from my lovely mother-in-law after she passed. Initially I tried selling it, but I realized that the resale market on furs is lacking, meaning there is little interest (at least in my research and experience) and you cannot remotely get the value of fur back. In this case, it’s a $6000 jacket, and I had trouble getting interest below even $1K.

So I decided to start wearing it. And I enjoyed it because it reminded me of my mother-in-law, a connection to her. Admittedly, it is also a beautiful jacket and fits me like a glove.

I know fur is controversal. I am an animal lover so that also complicates my feelings on this jacket. I enjoy it very much for the reasons mentioned, but in the back of my mind is the thought of the animals.

My argument in favour of the jacket: it’s vintage, it’s not directly supporting the new fur industry, it’s a memento and heirloom, it’s already DONE. In my mind, it’s a crime to not have at least someone make use of it rather than the animals dying in vain (in this case, they would have been caught in the wild, not farmed). One can argue that it’s not entirely different from eating meat, and wearing silk and leather products. Heck, every third person in Canada right now is wearing real fur trim on their hats and hoods (including me) and nobody raises an eyebrow.

But once it’s a full fur coat/jacket, it does raise eyebrows. I think because it’s so blatant a display of making use of animal products. Now, I’m not a vegan and don’t intend on becoming one. But before I bought my own fur-trimmed parka filled with down, I did a lot of research on the brand to ensure that the down was from the food industry, and the fur “humanely” sourced. I’m OK with my parka. It’s just the beautiful lynx jacket I can’t decide on.

It doesn’t help that, while wearing it recently and feeling half good and half bad about it, some friends made some pretty off-colour jokes about the lynx jacket. AKA “is the lynx cold?” That was the first and only time I wore it this season.

So my option is to keep the jacket and enjoy it as a vintage family heirloom that I love in many ways, or sell it to someone else for a low amount. Coincidentally, I do have something I want to buy that the jacket could help fund, as well, if I were able to get close to $1K.

Thoughts?
 
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**Let me preface that we don't allow fur debate on tPF.**


IMO, for those who are torn, inherited fur should be the "cleanest mind" imo.
I am not anti-fur and where I wear mine, they're heavily complimented actually. I'm not sure if people can tell real from faux much anymore tbh.
Oh, my apologies Swanky, thanks for the heads up! Should we close this thread, or is it possible to continue without a fur debate? Whatever you think :flowers:

Thank you for your thoughts, as well.
 
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The phrase: Life is short, buy the bag. can probably be applied to most things.
As long as you love it and enjoy it, then keep it and wear it.

Life is short, keep and wear it for as long as you love it. When you no longer love it, then it's time for it to go! :smile:
 
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Wear what you feel comfortable with. I used to be a vegan and am still a huge animal lover but I do wear fur. I will avoid wearing it in certain environments if I know it might be taboo or disrespectful, like if I were to grab lunch with a vegetarian friend or visit a plant based restaurant. Swanky made a great point that very few can tell the difference between faux or real!
 
Sell. You are only half in love with it, for the reasons you've described, and the funds will allow you to purchase the item you wish to buy and that item is therefore also linked to your mother-in-law.
 
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I understand your feelings about this, I share them. Such a dilemma! But, I literally gasped when I saw the photo of your coat (so gorgeous), and it looks so beautiful on you. Putting myself in your situation, I would keep it. Perhaps there will be times when you will feel more comfortable wearing it. If I were you and not in need of the funds it could bring, I'd decide to just not decide right now!
 
Oh, my apologies Swanky, thanks for the heads up! Should we close this thread, or is it possible to continue without a fur debate? Whatever you think :flowers:

Thank you for your thoughts, as well.
Let me remove the word “controversial” from title!
I can always merge it to another fur topic if needed!

I agree with others, keep the heirloom!
 
I don't have any qualms about wearing fur or shearling and the jacket is gorgeous! However do you think you would feel comfortable wearing it?
If not, are you comfortable holding onto it as a memento from your lovely mil without wearing it?
If you don't feel comfortable even having it in your possession, take photos of it and keep the memories of your mil and sell or donate it
 
Thank you everyone for weighing in, I really appreciate all the food for thought posted here.

It seems the overall consensus is to keep it. I think perhaps I shouldn’t overthink it and just enjoy the beauty and family connection of wearing it. Every time I see my MIL’s name monogrammed inside, it makes me smile. That should be what matters. And yes, it is beautiful. Thank you!
 
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