Yes good luck to both of you, it sucks that Paypal is so bad at customer service, especially thinking they have the right to freeze people's money for 180 days with no recourse.
But Virgy as a tpf member surely you can understand why people are telling seahorseinstripes to be wary, you've read as many horror stories on here as the rest of us. I'm sure nobody's comments were meant to be personal, it's just that we have to protect each other as nobody at Paypal or Ebay is going to do it for us!
finally the refund goes to my CC account and i can send the payment back
the downside, because i'm an international buyer who's currency not USD, some money shrinkage during the converted from the USD refund to my currency and from my currency back to the USD...
but i'm glad it's over now, thank u all girls for being so sweet and helpful