paypal is still holding my funds!

I am currently selling on my old buying id to build up feedback and ALL my funds are being held. Even for the $5 ST john shirt I just sold. SO I have to pay for shipping out of my own pocket. I asked buyers to pay using revolutionmoneyexhcange and she flipped her lid. She is convinced I am a scammer, so she lectured me and said she does not trust me, so she does not want her Dooney.
So the only thing I could think of to do was refund everybodys money and send a request for money through paypal and do not reference ebay and see if they will pay that way. 1 has paid so far with no hold. Or you could get a merchant account that accepts paypal. SUcks that there are no other options and we have to wait for our money for 21 days or for the feedback that buyers could care less about leaving.

SUcks that there are no other options and we have to wait for our money for 21 days or for the feedback that buyers could care less about leaving.

Or... that you can show confirmed delivery (usually the fastest way).