Palermo/Tivoli...GM or PM...What are you getting?

I'm the odd one out...from the pics I like the Tivoli PM more BUT I still need to see both IRL first. I'm thinking the GM may be a tad too big for me.
 
I waitlisted for the Tivoli pm...haven't seen it IRL but, I am sooo disappointed at how different it looks from the GM in the pics. Anyone else feel this way??? I've been lusting after this bag since August & had my heart set on the fact that the PM would look just like the GM except smaller :crybaby:. I'm hoping the GM won't be too big so I can get that one instead.

Also, at first the Palermo's looked plain in the pics but I got to see them at the boutique. The pm is really, really cute...so chic looking with a touch of femininity. I recommend everyone go check it out if you can. IMO pics really don't do it justice. I may get that one if the Tivoli GM is too big.