What is everyone's opinions on this item? It's truly stunning in person, but is it too young looking? I'm turning 39, so want a piece I'll be able to use on special occasions for years to come (especially for the cost). I found this pic online, but on the final product, the nose/closure is gold. It's all sequins, and the blue/purple leather lining surrounding the owl is patent, not flat as it appears here. Thoughts?