hi. i'm new to the forum. came across this site while looking for bags online. so gald i found it. i would like some opinions on this bag. i saw it at neimans and loved it but another shopper commented that it looked like it would be more appropriate for an older woman. i'm in my mid-30's and have a 5 year old and 5 month old and would use the bag everyday. thanks for listening ( or rather reading) look forward to your comments.