My parents are paying for it, but a small part of me feels that it is almost a waste to spend 20-30 k on an event that is only 1 day...
Nicole, you should rent Bridezillas on DVD!! It's really interesting.
If I did plan a wedding for myself, I'd do a small one, nothing too extravagant. I think the idea of a small, romantic wedding with my family, and close friends is perfect.
My hubby and I eloped and it was wonderful, just the two of us. We've been married over 7 years and I've never regretted not having a big wedding. I would definately take the money for a down pymt. on house. A small intimate beach wedding sounds lovely, my best friends did that, no regrets for them either.